SIX PILLARS of SELF ESTEEM: Notes


You are always worth it

EFFICACY:

  1. Efficacy of self is believed in, will strive and work hard each time the thing comes around and there is trouble in life. Expect excellence.
  2. Self-Respect: assurance to live and to be happy in life, fo be successful in life, joy and fulfilment are my natural right. Clear cut conversations that are direct, self respect entails love and friendship as a natural for who we are, 
  3. Unless you have high status you can’t make high level partners in your life, 

MANNER:

  1. Manners, ease, spontaneouity, ability to accept failures and criticisms, congruency of thinking, acting and living, 
  2. Curiosity and openness about the new, 
  3. Do challenging stuff with ease and lack of effort, self efficacy and self confidence is dynamic and changes with life. At peak, you treat people with love respect etc. you have to work on yourself to raise yourself up everyday
  4. For your level you need not be stifled or stuck in your head, go do what you must and live your life fully
  5. You can be grounded in reality then you can have your self esteem. Open minded and open to things and ideas in life.
  6. Taking yourself too seriously is a big flaw in life. Humor is a sign of being at ease with situations.
  7. Life experience and challenges have put you in difficult places in life. Able to handle it. Periodically handle trouble over and over.
  8. What to say when you talk to you. Clear self, not at war with you. No tension. 
  9. You at high self esteem will adjust to level folks
  10. Self esteem needs: Focus vs non-Focus, Think vs Non-Think, unaware vs aware, clear vs. vagueness, respect for reality vs. delusions, facts vs. not facts, truth vs. rejection of truth, persevere to understand vs. abandon the effort, honesty with self, receptivity to new knowledge vs. no receptivity, loyalty to responsibility of consciousness vs not, 
  11. You want all to come up and not be stuck on things, do not teach others all. 
  12. Progressive movement to goals is a way of life.its important to have faith anD belief while looking at facts.
  13. Conduct critical thinking all the time and not partial thinking, look at facts and don’t be deluded.look at numbers and data and resolve the things. See progress in life? Use tools to track and do things well. Your progress has enormous effect on your self esteem. Feedback is outside your head in the world. Iterate according to effect. 
  14. Learning how to persevere is important in all situations, holding critical thought and working on your issues all the time is the key step to live consciously.
  15. Try and understand the values that guide you and their roots so that you are not a fool, but to still perform well means doing selling and technical stuff all at the same time, 
  16. When you blame someone for something it’s a form of internal avoidance that is there so don’t blame anyone, focus on you. Try and raise your level over and over, all the time.

Self ACCEPTANCE:

  1. When you are fine and aligned with yourself and your flaws
  2. You show your flaws openly but project energy of constant improvement on self, not negative image
  3. It is the full acceptance of you as you, actions, thoughts, feelings, past, present and future
  4. Your perceived shortcomings should be respected and learned over time
  5. Don’t let it hold you back
  6. 98% of things are in your control you are not looking hard enough otherwise, take the path of the entrepreneur to be the one for life, power of self responsibility- how you have control, what you have control, figure it out, 
  7. Take responsibility for your time, your relations, your work, your consciousness, 
  8. Put yourself in discomfort that will raise your self esteem

SELF ASSERTIVENESS:

  1. Tell me what you want and be clear and get respect
  2. Hold your strength of frame
  3. Get an idea and take action on it right away,
  4. Repeat and do things over and over till you hold the frame firmly,
  5. Emotional charge and negativity is okay if it comes from a good place,
  6. Clear on intent then no game will be played,
  7. You may allow boldness to overcome the laws of power fully, this is not mindless rebellion, in business being assertive with people is important, it’s not rebellion, people are afraid to assert themselves but it’s key, it’s a must, clear, specific, win-win 
  8. Confront challenges and do not avoid them as they will raise the game to the next level and take you higher up

LIVING WITH PURPOSE:

  1. Productivity directed at adding value to the world
  2. See how you will combine it all and grow your standards to the next level
  3. Pay attention to yourself and how you behave in productivity
  4. See how you can develop yourself through pragmatic measurement of yourself to see how you can be the best version of you
  5. Form your core goals 
  6. To be constantly aligned to your goals
  7. Personal integrity is about coming up to someone and apologising and resolving issues with people when you are aware that you are wrong

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